Effective Alternative to “Searching”

"I need to find my true self." "I want to find my real purpose." "I’ll find true love when the time is right." "I’m trying to find balance in my life." "I want to find the right path." Do these statements sound familiar to you, and yet ... a bit off? Can we really “find” these end goals, or is there a better way to reach them, if reaching them is even possible?